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Area of Expertise
-Setting and Enforcing Boundaries
-Overcoming internal barriers and limiting beliefs and perceptions
-Understanding and controlling emotions and behaviors
-Educating Advancement and Opportunities
-Equity, Ethics, and Social Justice
-Youth Empowerment and Advocacy
Adya Shere, M.Ed
Masters in Education
Doctoral Candidate in Leadership
Business & Education Consultant
Founder & President, UnMutingMe LLC
#unmutingme #badtablemanners #adyashere
Dedicated to those who read this and said "Yes- That's Me!"
I have had my fair share in this game of life personally and professionally. I have over 10 years of behavioral coaching intervention, and professional leadership experience, but I find that all the amount of years in my profession does not match my "life experiences". I have gone through a divorce, being a single momma, loneliness, broke and broken, not good enough, abused, depression, anxiety, people-pleasing, afraid to stand up for myself, and codependency. I was an afraid kid in an adult body asking for help, but was too afraid of being judged! I didn't know I had all of these issues until I found myself in deep darkness where no matter how good I looked outwardly I WAS BROKEN INWARDLY; I DIDN'T LOVE MYSELF. I HEARD LOVE YOURSELF MANY TIMES ON TV AND BOOKS BUT DIDN'T KNOW TO DO IT? I immediately expressed this to someone whom I knew supported me in everything (my mother).
I started to learn about how the brain is either working subconsciously or consciously. My brain had been hard-wired so negatively that I was an adult still seeking love and approval compared to a 6 year old seeking attention from its parents. I always had that thought from EVERYONE in the back of my mind. "Do you accept me?" This explained why I was in so much pain. I had carried this not good enough and codependency behavior into adulthood and I didn't know it! Until I had a breaking point of being told that I was "clingy." I was again left being that person trying to find someone to love me. I had invested all of my life trying to please others, but completely forgot about ADYASHERE! I was hurt, pissed, and confused. That's when I realized that "no more" of this! I WAS NOT GOING TO BE THE VICTIM ANYMORE - NO MORE BLAMING! I realized that people will hurt you and situations will be hurtful. Champion - YOU WILL BE HURT but regardless we all have a choice. I started to get help and soul search to find someone I had never met before - I WAS SEARCHING FOR ME THE ENTIRE TIME, AND Y'ALL IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. Although, I was very successful in my education and career taking off, I didn't know who I was outside of being a broke and broken woman raising a little girl. The life I was living was not mine. I needed to find God then Me! I realized that I allowed myself to accept many toxic people and things in my life just to keep the peace in everyone else's life I had taken so many blows and disappointments that I didn't even know how to leave any relationship, set and enforced boundaries, how to say "no" unapologetically, or leave a job that wasn't even satisfying! I didn't know a da*n thing!
REGARDLESS - I had to stop the "bs!" I got my stuff together by getting professional help from a counselor and coach. My story is my testimony of how I overcame. Now let's unmute yours. Just like I overcame so you can you. You have to be made "new."
WE CAN TALK FOR HOURS ABOUT ME BUT RIGHT NOW THIS MOMENT ABOUT YOU!
I ADVISE YOU NOW TO STOP IGNORING WHAT'S GOING ON WITH YOU BECAUSE THE LONGER YOU SUPPRESS IT. THE FEELINGS COMES BACK WITH VENGEANCE UNTIL THE UNDERLYING ISSUE IS ADDRESSED. I can help you with this! This is just a little of what you've read and I can assure you that I get it! Let me coach you through this AS I UNDERSTAND AND DO NOT JUDGE! LET'S UNMUTEYOU RIGHT NOW!
SAY - YES I'M READY TO BE UNMUTED!
I strive to help people find clarity in their everyday struggles. This comes from me hustling every day to ensure that my journey in life is not in vain. No more wasting energy and time on things that serve you no purpose. Therefore, being successful in the journey is what I am an expert in and I strive to share all I know with YOU as a coach and consultant.
ADYA - Supreme being and of higher power
I've learned truly if you want something bad enough you'll live, sleep, and eat it. If I can't do that then I don't want it bad enough!